Can Do!

When I ask, “Would you like to Exercise today? “, occasionally I hear a negative answer: “I used to exercise but now I can’t.“ That may mean I can’t run a mile anymore or play tennis or 18 holes of golf. But everyone can exercise in some way. Many exercises can be done sitting in a chair or standing beside a sturdy chair or even laying on the bed. To get started, all it takes is a “CAN DO“ attitude. 

An article, Obtaining a “Can Do” Attitude By Celeste Stewart from lifescript.com reports: “A “can do” attitude is a conviction that shows the world that whatever needs to be done, can and will get done. Unfortunately, many people have a tendency to focus on what can’t be done rather than what can be done. These days especially, we are experiencing “the must and must not do.” It’s time to take the “Can Do” attitude. 

Developing a “can do” attitude requires shifting focus from “I can’t” to “I can.” Pay attention to what you are saying and hearing. How much of that is negative? How can you reword it to make it positive? If someone is complaining all the time, try to shift the conversation. 

Take responsibility. When facing an obstacle, are you quick to blame other people or circumstances? Instead of placing blame, take responsibility for the challenge and work to overcome it. What can I do? 

Take action and follow through. Procrastination will bog you down so don’t fall into the trap of 

putting off your tasks. Set your mind to doing something and then do it. Keep going until you reach your goals. If you must take it a small step at a time, that’s fine – as long as you are taking those steps. 

Take the positive direction. Surround yourself with other positive people. Energy, both positive and negative, is infectious. Aligning yourself with other can-doers will bring out the best in you. 

Strong, retired woman showing off her muscles

Adopting a “can do” attitude can change your life. With the right attitude, your health can improve. Whatever your goal is, applying the “can do” spirit will help you reach it. No one says it’s going to be easy. In fact, it takes determination, confidence, and initiative. In addition, this new attitude requires a whole new way of thinking. This positive approach will pay off as you become more self-confident and see steps towards your goals accomplished. 

Joining one of our exercise classes offered will put you into company with many “CAN-DOERS” who encourage each other to do what they can to get stronger and stay fit. Start small and work up gradually. If you have been out of the exercise habit for a while, start with 15 minutes of easy to moderate exercise and add 5 min a week to your schedule. After a month you will be up to 30 minutes which is the recommendation of CDC. Thirty minutes for 5 days per week add up to 150 minutes of exercise which has been recommended by Arthritis Foundation. Yoga Stretch on Channel 10 Mondays and Wednesdays at 12:45 is a good 

class for beginners (that can be done seated if necessary.) While walking hallways is always a good beginning. Mary Hand will be glad to help you get started in the Oasis with using the equipment and encourage you in whatever exercise plan you want to take. 

Remember the scripture, “I CAN DO all things through Christ who strengthens me. “ Philippians 4:13 

And don’t forget the children’s book The Little Engine That Could who told himself, “I think I CAN: I think I CAN: I think I CAN.” 


Remember That Someone Cares

Over a year ago, Berry Terry initiated a ministry called Remember That Someone Cares.(RTSC)…..the purpose of the ministry was to focus on our residents with cards and/or visits to celebrate their birthdays and to give encouragement. A list with 12 names was provided each month of suggested individuals who were especially in need of our love and attention. 

It soon became obvious that RTSC needed to focus on those in our Medical Areas, which on any given day houses approximately 150 people…..

The Villa, Providence Place, Job’s Way and The Manor. From time to time, residents in Independent Living were also included.

Some of our ministry participants preferred to visit and some enjoyed sending cards….but in March that all changed. Although, we could no longer visit the Medical Areas due to the coronavirus, cards became very important…. especially since so many felt isolated without interaction with friends and love ones.

A special “THANK YOU” to our RTSC Members:

  • Shirley Anderson
  • George Courington
  • Cindy Dabrowski
  • Jackie Gunther
  • Peggy Hogan
  • Lucy Inkster
  • Tinian Malloy
  • Lou Moore
  • Carol Odom
  • Charles & Laura Parrott
  • Ann Peyton
  • Bill Sayle
  • Sylvia Statham
  • Betty Terry
  • Alice Walton
  • Joy Wright

And our newest Members,
Martha Gardiner and Madonna Langford

If you would like more information about RTSC, please contact Cheryl Johnson. The need is so great these days and your help would be greatly appreciated and such a blessing. 


Promoting Good Posture

Retired woman practicing yoga.

“Improving posture can be done with time and focus.”

For most adults, posture is typically an afterthought at both work and home. But as we age, retaining good posture actually becomes even more important to our physical health and wellness. 

What Causes Poor Posture for Seniors? 

Avoiding a wholly sedentary lifestyle is the key to good posture for people of all ages. However, it is unfortunately common for seniors, especially those with pre-existing health complications like arthritis, to take up inactive lifestyles. This can also lead to poor posture. 

Seniors who are recovering from a recent injury or surgical procedure may also encounter similar difficulties staying fit and sitting right. Families and caregivers must encourage their aging loved ones to correct poor posture. Performing a minimum amount of daily exercise to improve balance and muscle strength will help this. 

Good Posture Prevents Falls for Seniors 

Did you know that seniors who are mindful about their postures are more likely avoid injuries and even falls? According to the National Institute for Fitness and Sport, “when you have good posture, your body will work the way it is supposed to, keeping your muscles balanced.” 

When you sit or stand with proper posture, you are doing your body a favor by not overexerting yourself. Overexertion can cause unnecessary strain on weaker muscles. Additionally, being mindful of your posture is great for balance. 

Steps for Improving Posture 

  1. Don’t give up; Improving posture can be done with time and focus. 
  2. Discuss your current weight with a doctor or caregiver. The conversation should reveal expectations of an acceptable weight for your age, sex, and body type, as well as a plan for how to stay there. 
  3. Take up a regular schedule of exercise, if you haven’t already. There is evidence that group nature walks can provide mental benefits for seniors, beyond just delivering a dose of physical activity. 
  4. Evaluate the lumbar support of the chairs and other seating options in your home. If necessary, consider purchasing a new chair that encourages better posture. 

It is important to correct poor posture as soon as possible to avoid further health complications, like neck and back pain. Keeping our bodies in motion is essential to avoid the consequences of living an unhealthy, sedentary lifestyle. 


Keep Your Cool

Retired man wiping the sweat off his head during a game of pickleball

Weather in Memphis went from unseasonably cool to dangerously hot with high heat indexes. The Heat Index (HI) is a number that tells people how warm it actually feels. The body doesn’t release heat through the evaporation of sweat as effectively and especially dangerous for seniors (or anyone else) exercising outdoors in a high heat index. Even a mild activity, such as walking can cause problems. 

“Seniors are much more vulnerable to the harmful effects of heat, as their bodies do not adjust as well to sudden changes in temperature,” shares Dr. Lubna Javed of HealthCare Partners Medical Group. “Some chronic medical conditions and prescription medications can impair the body’s ability to react efficiently to rising temperature.” 

Know the Risks of Hyperthermia. Heat stroke is an advanced form of hyperthermia that can be life-threatening. Learn these warning signs and get medical attention immediately if you are experiencing these symptoms: 

Body temperature greater than 103 degrees; Change in behavior, such as confusion or agitation; Dry, flushed skin; Nausea and vomiting; Fatigue and weakness, headache; Heavy breathing or a rapid pulse; Not sweating, even if it’s hot out; Fainting. Muscle cramps and heavy sweating may occur with heat exhaustion. 

If symptoms occur go to a cooler environment immediately and lower the body temperature by using cool water (a pool, cool tub, cool shower or washcloth wipe-down. Drink chilled, but not icy cold water. Heat exhaustion can be a life- threatening emergency, so call for emergency medical personnel) or 911 (if on-site help is not available) immediately. 

Avoid a Heat Emergency. Recognize the signs of heat exhaustion to keep seniors safe in hot weather. Many seniors with memory issues don’t recognize changes in temperature immediately, stay alert for symptoms, prompt for re-hydration, and remind loved ones to remove extra clothing layers outdoors. 

Stay Hydrated. As we age we lose our ability to conserve water and become less aware of our thirst. Drink plenty of cool water throughout the day and avoid alcohol and caffeine. Pack extra water for outings. But if taking water pills or other medication, check with your doctor to find out exactly how much water you should be drinking on warm days. Drink sweat replacement products (that contain salt and potassium) to replace water lost by perspiration. Eat cooling snacks like popsicles or slightly frozen grapes or watermelon, and light, cold meals like chicken or pasta salad instead of heavy, hot dishes like pot roast. 

Place a cool washcloth on the back of the neck and a pan of cool water close by to periodically re-cool the towel…Sit with feet in a pan of cool (but not too cold) water. Keep the house as cool as possible by keeping shades closed during the hottest part of the day. 

Stay in Touch. High temperatures can be life-threatening, so let friends and family know if you’ll be spending an extended period of time outdoors, even if you’re only gardening. 

Wear the Right Stuff. Dress for the weather. Natural fabrics (such as cotton) are cooler than synthetic fibers. Light-colored and loose-fitting clothes feel cooler and more comfortable. Wear sunglasses to protect your eyes from harmful UV rays and sunscreen when outdoors. Hats are also a great idea, especially for those with light colored hair and those with only distant memories of a full head of hair. 

Exercise Smart. If you enjoy outdoor activities such as walking or gardening, keep track of time. Don’t’ stay out for long periods and make sure to drink even more water than usual when exercising. Exercise outside earlier in the morning or later in the evening when the sun is not at its peak. 

Find indoor activities like that exercise class you were thinking of joining or learn to use the equipment in the Oasis or take a refreshing dip in the pool. At Kirby Pines we have many indoor exercise options with a variety of exercise classes. Check out the Sit and Stand Exercise class at 11:00 Live streaming on Channel 10 on Tuesdays and Thursdays or the Yoga class on Mondays and Wednesdays at 12:45 on channel 10. Enjoy exercising in the cool of your home. The Pool is open for water walking and exercise (Team up with a workout buddy so you are not alone in the water). The Oasis has free weights and 10 different machines to build strength and endurance. Mary Hand will be glad to show you how to use the equipment and start your own exercise program. 

The summertime is a time of fun and relaxation for most people. But for seniors, the heat and sun can be dangerous if the proper precautions aren’t taken. If you follow these tips, you can have an enjoyable and fun-filled summer — no matter how old you are. 


Keeping Hydrated

Retired man drinking water

As the July month comes our way so will the hot and humid weather. It is extremely crucial to be safe and maintain your hydration levels. Hydration is maintaining a proper balance throughout the body. Water makes up 75% of the human body and can be extracted in many various ways. If you don’t replace the water that you have lost dehydration is likely to occur. Some warning signs to be cautious of when becoming dehydrated are dry mouth, extreme thirst, headache, confusion, and dizziness. Don’t wait until you notice the symptoms before taking action.

Drink plenty of water throughout the day to help prevent dehydration. It has been recommended to consume 6-8 glasses of water a day. Drinking water alone is not the only way to achieve proper hydration. There are many different types of fruits and vegetables which have an adequate amount of water content. Watermelon has 90% water, which ranks as one of the highest, but oranges, melons, and grapefruit are also great contenders. Spinach, celery and broccoli are also good substitutes for vegetables.

Retired woman and granddaughter drinking waterTips for Staying Hydrated:

  • Drink plenty of liquids
  • Watch the heat index
  • Wear appropriate clothing
  • Have a glass of water with each meal
  • Avoid caffeinated drinks
  • Urine color should be a pale yellow

Top 20 Hydrating Foods

  1. Cucumber – 96.73% Water
  2. Iceberg Lettuce – 95.64% Water
  3. Celery – 95.43% Water
  4. Tomatoes – 94.52% Water
  5. Romaine Lettuce – 93.47% Water
  6. Zucchini – 92.73% Water
  7. Watermelon – 91.45% Water
  8. Spinach – 91.4% Water
  9. Strawberries – 90.95% Water
  10. Skim Milk – 90.84% Water
  11. Soy Milk – 90.36% Water
  12. Cantaloupe – 90.15% Water
  13. Honeydew – 89.82% Water
  14. Kale – 89.63% Water
  15. Broccoli – 89.33% Water
  16. Peaches – 88.87% Water
  17. Carrots – 88.29% Water
  18. Oranges – 86.75% Water
  19. Pineapple – 86% Water
  20. Apples – 85.56% Water

ATTENTION: Bored Couch Potatoes!

Retired man watching television

Have you noticed lately that as the Stay In Place orders lag on and the summer days begin to heat up that you are spending more time on the couch or in your chair enjoying the air conditioning? Have you ever wondered why exercise has to be so exerting or sweaty? Exercise may be on the bottom of your to do list, if it makes the list at all. In this health column written by Doctor K (Komaroff), he gave several good exercises for a “couch potato.” His information was from a physical therapist Kailyn Collins who gave him these suggestions:

While lying flat on your back on the couch or bed, lift one leg 8-12 times
concentrating on using your thigh muscles. Repeat with the other leg.

Turn to your side and lift your leg up 8-12 times using your thigh muscles
(imagine a half “Jumping Jack”). Roll to the other side and repeat.

Lying on your back again, lift both legs while you tighten your stomach muscles.
Hold for ten seconds. Don’t forget to breathe.
Relax for 10 seconds and repeat every commercial break.

Sitting upright with your feet flat on the floor, practice standing up. Repeat 10 times. Another variation is to almost stand just raising your bottom off the chair and sit again. Make sure your chair is sturdy and not a rocker.

This exercise can be repeated in reverse where you begin standing and squat
like you are almost sitting and repeat 10 times. When you are ready to sit
make sure your chair is under your bottom (gently sit without a plop).

Move your wrists by rotating; waving up and down; Open and close your fists; Twiddle your thumbs and each finger one at a time.

Rotate your ankles and flex each foot.

Shoulder rolls; Raise one arm and then the other;
Extend arms out to the side to expand chest and take a deep breath.

These are just a few simple exercises that you can do while sitting on the couch. If you take the dare and give these a try, you may be pleasantly surprised that energy, strength, and balance will improve. If you like these, I have many more exercises you may find useful. Check out the Sit and Stand Exercise class at 11:00 Live streaming on Channel 10 on Tuesdays and Thursdays or the Yoga class on Mondays and Wednesdays at 12:45 on channel 10.

Retired woman stretching


If I Were the Devil

 

Devil

Paul Harvey was a Nationally Syndicated radio broadcaster of the latter half of the 20th Century. He rendered daily news on over 1600 stations and sent columns to 300 newspapers across America, 24 million listeners tuned him in. He was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2005 for his contributions to the nation.

One broadcast originally given in 1964 was updated several times as in this version of 1996. In Paul Harvey’s own words, here is what he said he would do, if he “were the devil.”

“If I were the prince of darkness, I would want to engulf the whole world in darkness. I’d have a third of its real estate and four-fifths of it population, but I would not be happy until I had seized the ripest apple on the tree—thee. So, I would set about however necessary to take over the United States of America.

“I’d subvert the churches first, and I would begin with a campaign of whispers. With the wisdom of a serpent, I would whisper to you as I whispered to Eve: ‘Do as you please.’

“To the young, I would whisper that the Bible is a myth. I would convince the children that man created God instead of the other way around. I’d confide that what’s bad is good and what’s good is square. And the old, I would teach to pray after me, ‘Our Father, which art in Washington …’

“Then, I’d get organized, I’d educate authors in how to make lurid literature exciting so that anything else would appear dull and uninteresting. I’d peddle narcotics to whom I could. I’d sell alcohol to ladies and gentlemen of distinction. I’d tranquilize the rest with pills.

“If I were the devil, I’d soon have families at war with themselves, churches at war with themselves and nations at war with themselves until each, in its turn, was consumed. And with promises of higher ratings, I’d have mesmerizing media fanning the flames.

“If I were the devil, I would encourage schools to refine young intellect but neglect to discipline emotions. I’d tell teachers to let those students run wild. And before you knew it, you’d have drug-sniffing

Radio Host, Paul Harvey

dogs and metal detectors at every schoolhouse door. With a decade, I’d have prisons overflowing and judges promoting pornography. Soon, I would evict God from the courthouse and the schoolhouse and then from the houses of Congress. In his own churches, I would substitute psychology for religion and deify science. I’d lure priests and pastors into misusing boys and girls and church money.

“If I were the devil, I’d take from those who have and give to those who wanted until I had killed the incentive of the ambitious. What’ll you bet I couldn’t get whole states to promote gambling as the way to get rich?

“I’d convince the young that marriage is old-fashioned, that swinging is more fun and that what you see on television is the way to be. And thus, I could undress you in public and lure you into bed with diseases for which there are no cures.

“In other words, if I were the devil, I’d just keep right on doing what he’s doing.”

Paul Harvey was so right! Do we believe him? What changes can we begin to make!

Till next time, Don Johnson, Kirby Pines Chaplain


Staying Active and Social During Isolation

Overview

During this challenging time, you may find yourself spending most of your time at home alone. While it may be necessary for your health, it can also have negative impacts on your mental health and physical activity. Loneliness and isolation are associated with increased rates of depression, a weakened immune system, heart disease, and dementia. We know how important staying active and social is, especially during these times, so let’s talk about home alternatives to help everyone stay healthy in both mind and body!

retired woman lifing weights

Staying Physically Active

Regular physical activity benefits both the mind and body. It can improve mental health, reduce the risk for depression, cognitive decline, and delay the onset of dementia.

What can you do?

  1. Home Exercise Programs – Talk with your Wellness Coordinator or Therapy Team about exercises that are safe to do in the privacy of your own home. Learn the best exercises for you based on your current fitness levels.
  2. Virtual Workouts – There are a ton of resources and streaming services that offer video workouts. Try searching YouTube or other health and fitness apps to find a workout that is best for you. Please consult with your Wellness Coordinator or Therapy Team prior to participating in an online workout. We want to make sure you choose videos that are safe and appropriate for your fitness level!
  3. Set up a Routine – Even though you are not getting out and about like you used to, it may be helpful to set a schedule and include physical activity. By carving out a specific time each day to exercise, you are more likely to stick to it!
  4. “Partner” Workouts – Think of different ways you can a friend can work out “together” without actually being in the same room. For example, you can open your doorway and exercise with your neighbor from across the hall. Or, you can FaceTime or Skype a friend and complete a workout together.
  5. Reduce Time Spent Sitting – Take short 3-5 minute breaks every 20-30 minutes. Whether you are working, watching TV, or reading a book, set a timer and get up and stretch periodically. If you are able, take a quick walk around your house or outside.

Retired man on tablet

Staying Socially Active

Spending days or weeks at home can take a toll on someone’s mental health. When people are asked to stay home, they are likely cut off from their regular routines. This can cause stress due to a drop in meaningful activities, social engagement, and a lack of common coping strategies likely going to an exercise class or attending religious services.

During isolation, it is common to experience:

  • Fear
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Boredom
  • Anger
  • Frustration or Irritability

How to Cope:

  1. Stay Virtually Connected – Use phone calls, text messages, video chat or social media to connect with family, friends and loved ones.
  2. Virtual Gatherings – Take your video chats one step further and plan a “game night” or a “family meal” with your loved ones. Gather around the table virtually and share stories, memories, and laughs.
  3. Reach Out to Old Friends – This is the perfect time to catch up with someone you haven’t spoken to in a while.
  4. Support Others – Supporting others can be beneficial to the people you are supporting, but also to you. Some examples of this might be dropping off food or care packages to a friend in need, providing information or advice to a concerned family member, or providing emotional support to someone.
  5. Read a Book – Read a book over the phone or through video chat to a grandchild or family friend.
  6. “Neighbor” Chats – Sit in the doorway and chat across the hall with a friend (just make sure you are 6 feet apart or more!).

Join the Competition and Get Walking!

running shoes

Kirby Pines began a walking program in April with a little competition to see who gets out the most to walk. Participants were encouraged to walk outside in teams with safe distancing. The Rolling Walkers Team went out almost every day in their electric-powered chairs. People are walking everywhere from the lakes to the garden, gazebo and trails through the garden homes. Our 17 teams have put in more than 500 walking sessions in 5 weeks. Way to Go!!!! Here are a few of our teams of the week that were chosen randomly. Here are a few of our walking teams:

retired couple walking their dog The Lucy Lopers


Retired couple walking their dog. The Chippers


Retired couple at Kirby Pines The Maxwell Ramblers

This has been so much fun that we have decided to go for a second round. We will start on Monday, June 8 and end Sunday, July 26. Outside temperatures may be in the 90’s, so plan to walk early morning or late in the day or enjoy the air-conditioned halls of Kirby Pines. Remember to use sunscreen, wear a hat, sunglasses, and like I always say, DRINK MORE WATER.


This Is How We’re Enjoying Our Days!

We asked residents what they were doing to enjoy themselves while social distancing. Here’s what they said!

I have always been a Plan A, B, or C person when making plans, but was disappointed to have to cancel a reunion with four college friends in April, but when saving lives becomes more important, these were minor inconveniences”.
– Jean Mauney

I have read more books since our “confinement“ thank you to the Kirby library. I exercise in my room by watching Mary Hand on TV and I can still go to the Oasis. Talk to my children daily. And most of all we can still have Church services in our room via TV. Thanks to Kirby pines I can stay busy!”
– Billie Ratliff

Playing cards with friends. Getting a massage (for medical
purposes) from my daughter!”
– Jeannie Hutchinson

It has been my joy to diligently work on a project which has been rolling around in my mind for 8 months. With the help and skills of Jean Saunders getting me on track we are about to see the beginning of the end of the work.”
– Janice Wall

Sending Texts and Emails to family and friends, checking on them. Writing notes and cards to encourage me and others. Struggling to stay 6 feet apart, playing mahjong with friends Working in Blossom Shop. Ordering groceries for some shut-ins. Determining to stay positive, patient and depending on God to take care of us. Being thankful for Kirby Pines and the staff and all who work here to keep us safe.”
– Sydney Wagner

I decided this was a good time to change my closet from winter clothes to Spring and Summer. Now all my blouses, pants and jackets are hanging neatly and color-coordinated. After that it was time to rearrange and donate all those things in my storage unit that I thought I couldn’t live without. LOL!”
– Joyce Read

I have been working from home rather than going to the office. I am exercising with Mary Hand’s exercise class on Channel 10 on Tuesday and Thursday. We are watching movies on Channel 10. Am thankful to be able to hear Don Johnson’s Uplift Messages and Brian Odhiambo on the piano. What a blessing! If you will stop and think, believe you will agree there are more pluses than minuses in staying in.”
– Donna & Doug Paine

Just because we are social distancing doesn’t mean we still can’t have our dessert and coffee time with our neighbor, we just have to keep our distance!”
– Suzanne & Mike Hufnagel

I am truly enjoying the exercise classes (which I never attend at the big house) having them on my TV so I can do them regularly. That is such fun and something I never would do if I had to go up there. I just wish more people would stay in their apartments and take advantage of the wonderful in-house television service we have!! Thank you for this lovely privilege.”
– Sylvia Statham

We have found relief from the boredom by walking, in the morning, afternoon, and after dinner. Wonderful way to get away but remain on the property. Lots of opportunities to share thoughts and feelings. And as relatively new residents, provides chances to make new acquaintances. Have created lots of memories by taking photos around the grounds as Spring has arrived.”
-Jeanette & Steve Martin

Bob watches more TV than usual but also works at his computer. He does all the bookkeeping for us. I still have my regular chores, plus I have picked up my art again. I practice music on several instruments; as well connecting with old friends either by email or phone. I write a blog once a month and do my daily bible study. I am never bored.”
– Barbara & Bob Hyland

I started a group text to my eleven grandchildren and their families. It has been a wonderful experience!”
– Barbara Lipsey

I am rediscovering my extensive movie library.”
– Caroline Thomas

I am reading, watching more movies on TV, calling out of town family-staying inside Kirby.”
– Estelle Horn

I play the piano, read until I “fall off the page”, read emails, and occasionally do a Spotlight article for the Pinecone. I enjoy walking outside and admiring the beautiful grounds. I am getting increasingly lazier and the apartment is getting increasingly dirtier. However, I have plenty of time to focus on our singing group, The Entertainers in planning future programs. How I miss our singing together each week!”
– Joan Dodson